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The council rate conversation is broken. You know it. Families know it. And yet, when a potential private client calls, most agency owners still default to: "Our rate is £X per hour."
That's not pricing. That's competing on cost. And if you're competing on cost, you've already lost to the agency down the road charging £2 less.
If you want to know how to get private care clients in the UK, it starts with understanding that self-funders who can genuinely afford quality care aren't looking for the cheapest option. They're looking for evidence that you're different. That you're worth it. That their mum will be safe, seen, and cared for properly.
But if you can't articulate why you're worth £30-£40 per hour when councils pay an average of £24.10 per hour, you'll keep losing to agencies who compete on price alone.
This post is about fixing that. It's about defining your home care value proposition, putting language around it, and using it to win the clients who'll actually sustain your business.
The 'commodity' trap: why task-led care keeps you stuck
Let's be clear about what council-funded care has become in 2026: task-led. Fifteen-minute calls. Tick-box personal care. No time for conversation. Carers rushing between visits because the rate doesn't cover travel time.
You didn't get into care to run a business like that. But when your pricing model mirrors the council's – hourly rate, basic activities, speed over quality – you're signalling to families that you're offering the same thing.
Private clients expect something fundamentally different: relationship-led care.
Not "companionship" as a nice-to-have add-on. Relationship-led care means offering bespoke care services tailored to individual needs.
It means you have time to notice changes – the carer spots that Mrs. Patel hasn't touched her breakfast three days running and alerts the family before it becomes a crisis.
It means you provide continuity: the same two or three carers, not a rotating cast of strangers. Families pay more for familiarity.
It means you communicate proactively – families aren't chasing you for updates because they already know what's happening through your systems.
And it means you manage clinical risks properly: medications aren't "best efforts," they're tracked, audited, and escalated when something's wrong.
This isn't fluffy marketing. It's operationally different. And if you can't name these differences in a first conversation with a family, they'll assume you're just like everyone else.
How to get private clients: start with value definition
The first step in marketing for self-funders isn't better advertising or a new website. It's being able to clearly articulate what makes your service different from the council-funded model. Selling premium home care requires you to define and communicate specific operational differences – not just claim you're "better quality."
Most agencies lose private clients because they lead with price instead of value. When you understand what self-funders actually care about – safety, transparency, continuity, and expertise – you can position your service as the obvious choice, regardless of whether you're the cheapest option.
Here are the four pillars that form your home care value proposition and justify premium rates.
The four things that make families choose you (and pay more)
Private clients aren't paying for care hours. They're paying for outcomes and peace of mind. Here's how to show them you deliver both.
1. Clinical oversight: your medication safety story
Every agency says they "manage medications safely." But what does that actually mean when you're still using paper MAR charts collected monthly?
Here's the value gap families understand:
Paper-based medication management means errors only surface when you collect the MAR chart 30 days later. If a carer misses a dose, no one knows until the monthly audit. Families have no visibility into whether medication was actually given. You have no real-time way to spot patterns or prevent harm.
Electronic medication management (eMAR) means:
Every medication is logged digitally as it's given – with time, date, and which carer administered it. If a dose is late or missed, your office is alerted immediately and can follow up. Families can see in real-time that medications have been administered, or see the reason if they weren't. You can audit a month's worth of medication records in minutes, not hours. And you have evidence to show CQC that you meet medication management standards proactively, not reactively.
The premium positioning:
"We use a digital medication system that alerts us instantly if a dose is missed. Your mum's medications are tracked in real time, and you can see confirmation they've been given through our family app. Most agencies still use paper and only check monthly – we think that's not safe enough."
That's not a sales pitch. That's a statement of operational fact. And it justifies a higher rate.
Want to dive deeper into medication management best practices? Read our guide on medication administration records and safeguarding.
2. The family experience: transparency as a service feature
Here's what families hate: calling your office three times a week to ask "How's Dad doing?" and waiting for someone to dig through notes.
Here's what private clients will pay for: not having to ask.
This is where technology stops being a back-office efficiency tool and becomes a client-facing premium feature. Real-time care notes and family visibility through a family app delivers genuine peace of mind.
Families get real-time care notes from every visit – what their loved one ate, their mood, activities, any concerns. They get medication visibility – confirmation that tablets were given, or transparency if they were refused (and why). They can track health and wellbeing patterns over time that help them spot changes before they escalate. And they get peace of mind – especially for family members who live far away or can't visit regularly.
Right now, over 120,000 family members across the UK use apps like this. It's not experimental. It's an expectation.
The premium positioning:
"You won't need to call us to find out how your mum's day went. After every visit, you'll get a note from the carer on your phone – what she ate, how she was feeling, if anything's changed. It's all there in real time. And if something needs attention, we'll have already acted on it before you even notice."
This is the difference between a transactional service and a partnership. And it's worth paying for.
3. Workforce professionalism: the continuity argument
Private clients aren't just buying care. They're buying the same carers, consistently.
Council-funded agencies can't afford continuity. The rates don't allow it. So clients get different carers every week, sometimes every day. Families accept it because they have no choice.
Your premium offering is built on three pillars:
First, paying carers properly – which means you can recruit better, retain longer, and deliver consistency. To provide quality care at the Homecare Association's Minimum Price calculation of £32.14 per hour, you need sustainable carer rates. Learn more about how to empower your care teams with better tools.
Second, smaller caseloads per carer – so your team has time to build genuine relationships, not just complete tasks. When carers aren't rushing between eight visits a day, they can provide the attentive, relationship-led care that families value.
Third, structured induction and ongoing training – families want to know your carers are trained and supported, not just "experienced." Regular supervision, specialist training, and professional development are investments that show in the quality of care delivered.
The premium positioning:
"We limit the number of clients each carer works with, so you'll see the same two or three faces. That's not standard in homecare – most agencies can't afford it at council rates. But we think continuity is part of good care, not a luxury. That's why our rates are higher."
Again: this isn't persuasion. It's commercial reality. If you're paying carers £13/hour instead of £11.50, and giving them time to travel between visits, you need to charge more. Frame it as an investment in quality, not a cost.
4. Specialism: the shift toward condition-specific care
"General homecare" is a race to the bottom. Every agency does it. It's hard to differentiate.
Specialism is offering bespoke care services – and it's where the sector is heading. Private clients with complex conditions (dementia, Parkinson's, palliative care, post-stroke rehabilitation) want carers who understand the condition, not just "help with personal care."
If you've got carers with dementia training, or experience supporting people with Parkinson's, or clinical backgrounds in end-of-life care – that's your niche. And it commands higher rates. Discover more about delivering amazing care for complex conditions.
The premium positioning:
"We specialise in [dementia care / palliative care / neurological conditions]. All our carers have advanced training in [specific condition], and we work closely with families and clinicians to manage symptoms and prevent crises. It's a different level of care, which is why our rates reflect that expertise."
This isn't about turning away general clients. It's about having a known strength that differentiates you in competitive markets.
The 'care consultation' vs. the price quote: three questions to ask first
Most agencies lose private clients before the conversation even starts. A family calls, asks "How much do you charge?", and you say "£28 per hour" without understanding what they actually need.
They thank you, hang up, call three more agencies, and choose the cheapest one. You've just competed on price.
Here's the shift: Don't lead with your rate. Lead with questions that reveal what they're worried about. Selling premium home care starts with changing how you conduct initial conversations.
The three questions to ask before you quote:
1. "Can you tell me a bit about what's been happening that's made you start looking for care?"
What you're listening for: Is this a crisis (hospital discharge, carer burnout) or planned? Are they struggling with specific tasks, or is this about safety and reassurance? Do they need care, or do they need monitoring?
2. "Have you worked with a care agency before? What worked well, and what didn't?"
What you're listening for: Did they have bad experiences (inconsistent carers, poor communication, lack of updates)? Are they comparing you to the council service they just left? This tells you what they'll value most.
3. "What would 'good care' look like for you? What would give you peace of mind?"
What you're listening for: Do they prioritise continuity? Real-time updates? Clinical safety? Companionship? This is where you position your strengths.
Then – and only then – do you explain your rate.
"Based on what you've said, I think we'd be a good fit because [specific thing they said they need], which is something we're set up to deliver. Our rate is £32 per hour, which is higher than some agencies, but here's what that includes: [continuity / family app / eMAR / specialist training]. Most families tell us the visibility and consistency are worth it."
You haven't "sold" them anything. You've listened, and then matched their need to your service. That's how you justify premium rates.
Using what you already have: three things to add to your next client conversation
You don't need to overhaul your business to position as premium. You just need to talk about what you're already doing.
Quick audit checklist: your hidden premium features
Do you use a digital care management system? ✅
That's a premium safety feature. Say it."We use a digital system that tracks every visit and care note in real time, so nothing gets missed."
Do you offer a family app or portal? ✅
That's a client-facing differentiator."Families get live updates after every visit – no need to call the office."
Do you use eMAR? ✅
That's clinical oversight most agencies don't have."We track medications digitally and get instant alerts if something's wrong."
Do you assign consistent carers? ✅
That's continuity – and it costs more to deliver."You'll see the same two or three faces. We think that's what good care looks like."
Do you have carers with specialist training (dementia, end-of-life, Parkinson's)? ✅
That's expertise families will pay for."All our carers have advanced dementia training, so they know how to manage behaviours and keep your mum comfortable."
You're already doing this work. You're just not framing it as premium value.
The hard truth: not every family will pay more
And that's fine.
Some families will choose the agency charging £22 per hour. They'll prioritise cost because they have to, or because they don't yet understand the difference between task-led and relationship-led care.
You can't win those clients with better messaging. You can only win them by lowering your rates – and that's a race to the bottom.
Your job isn't to convince everyone. Your job is to clearly articulate your value so the families who do care about quality, safety, and continuity know you're different – and are willing to pay for it.
The agencies that will still be operating in 2030 are the ones who've figured this out. Council rates aren't coming back. The only sustainable path forward is private clients who value what you do enough to fund it properly.
So stop competing on price. Start defining your value. That's how to get private care clients in the UK who'll build a sustainable business with you.
What happens next: three actions you can take this week
1. Update your website homepage.
Add one sentence: "We use digital care management and a family app so you can see updates in real time." If that's true, say it.
2. Rewrite your initial call script.
Replace "Our rate is £X per hour" with three discovery questions. Test it on the next five enquiries.
3. List five things you already do that other agencies don't.
Use eMAR? Offer continuity? Have specialist dementia training? Write them down. That's your value proposition.
This isn't about becoming a luxury service. It's about honestly pricing and positioning the quality care you're already delivering – and finding the families who'll pay for it.
You're already doing the work. Now it's time to get paid properly for it.
Looking for practical tools to improve your agency's digital presence and attract more self-funded clients? Check out our guide: Optimise your digital front door: Google Business Profile for homecare agencies.
Want to understand how successful agencies are building sustainable private client services? Watch our webinar recording: How to grow your homecare business through private clients.
Ready to see how technology can support your premium positioning? Learn more about Birdie's Care Circle and Family App.
Interested in understanding your agency's cost structure and ROI? Try our cost savings calculator to see how digital tools can impact your bottom line.
Published date:
February 25, 2026
Author:
Hannah Nakano Stewart
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